the first thing you have to do is you have to stop mourning the child who's never going to be and start celebrating the child who he is. sally was better at that than i was. >> tt's my favorite poem in the book. you call it "patience." set that one for us. >> well, we take ronald to a horse ranch in colorado. we did it for 13 years, because horseback therapy was good for him. he related to horses and it was just great for his development. so this takes place at that dude ranch. it's titled "patience." "the porch was alive with hummingbirds, swarming the theatres, hovering with their invisible wings, darting away and back, delighting all of us dude ranchers sitting in the big adirondack chairs after a day on the trail. ignoring the admonitions, ronald could not stay away. 'don't worry,' the ranch boss says, 'he can't catch them.' but the boss did not count on a patience he'd never witnessed before -- a boy, moving as slowly as the wings were fast, the birds waiting to be cupped in the boy's hands, then released back to their busy work, each christened with a new name." >> tt stck mbecaus